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I started this blog as I entered my 40th year, and now firmly in my 40s, I continue to learn so much about life. I'm learning that life rarely goes according to plan and that there's something new to learn every single day, be it a subtle nudge or a smack in the face.... This is my blog about muddling through my 40s-working hard, writing a book, being an ammateur photographer, trying to exercise and eat well, endeavouring to be the world's best aunt, as well as having fun and laughing out loud every single day.
Showing posts with label August: Osange County. Show all posts
Showing posts with label August: Osange County. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

A Dear Rocky - August Osange County


Dear Rocky,

Instead of reviewing films in the traditional manner, for the A-Z Challenge, I've decided to discuss a certain character or relationship. 

Although I saw August months ago, it's a film that has stayed with me.  More recently, I've spent more time thinking about the vulnerability of Abigail Breslin's character Jean, the daughter of Julia Roberts and Ewan McGregor.  Not bad going if those genes ever united in reality... but let's look at Jean's level of vulnerability.

Here is a 14 year old girl whose parents have separated and whose father is sleeping with one of his (much younger) students.  What messages may this send to a teenager about beauty and attraction, right smack bang in the middle of the most self-conscious period of her development?

Her mother is emotionally absent, a product of her environment, doing her best to hold it all together.  Wiser than Jean, she's completely powerless in the struggle to keep her child safe.

Jean has clearly learnt the art of self-medication as she smokes marijuana and drinks alcohol, which is what gets her into trouble (almost) with sleazy Steve.

This situation speaks volumes to the argument of instilling healthy amounts of self-esteem in our young people, from an early age.  Unfortunately, this is often not possible within the family home, although statistics show that parents only have to be 30% on a satisfactory scale to be good enough parents!  Not even half way.

Fortunately though, healthy relationships outside of the family home are just as effective at assisting a young person to develop a whole sense of self to take into adulthood. 

Let's hope Abigail Breslin has a very different experience to Jean.

I could go on and on about all the performances in this film, but instead, I'll just score it out of 10.  I give it a 7.5/10.

What are your thoughts?

Jodie

Read Rocky's review here!

I know this is not Abigail Breslin,but I just think Julia Roberts was stunning in this film.  I hope this is how she looks in real life and that she is truly ageing gracefully.






Tuesday, January 14, 2014

#39 Reply to Rocky

On Sunday, my friend Rocky posted a letter to me on his blog Tales of the Rock.  You can read
Rocky Hatley's post to me about his experience with the movie August: Osange County starring Meryl Streep and Julia Roberts.



Here is my reply:

Dear Rocky,

I saw August: Osange County on New Year's Day.  Ever since seeing the preview a couple of weeks earlier, I'd been anticipating the film's release.  I'm always drawn to 'human' stories and this one looked like it offered it all up. 

I can't recall it being described as hilarious and it certainly didn't find it hilarious.  It's interesting as an Australian to hear your description of the kind of discrimination that occurs at times between the different states in the US. 

This film didn't sit well with me though, despite an exceptional performance by Julia Roberts.  It does deal with extremely dark themes, as you pointed out.

The main point that stood out for me from the movie was that certain personality traits are inherent, despite all of our best efforts to change them, or live our life in spite of them, they endure.  As Julia Roberts discovered she had remained completely unaware she even possessed many of her mother's qualities until it was so poignantly pointed out by her own daughter.

It made me think about the concept of change and the potential for change and the nurture versus nature debate.

In my job and in my life, I believe that people can change and that film really challenged that for me.

Can't wait to review another movie with you!

We can be the Blog World's David and Margaret - Google that...

Warm wishes,

Jodie


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